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It’s so difficult to realize that children suffer during and
after divorce, because one or both parties couldn’t control their
emotions. Your children love their grandparents,
uncles and aunts! Children need their
families and shame on you if you’re using the children as pawns in your
divorce. It makes children feel sad when
ones they love so much are name calling, back biting, yelling and screaming at
each other.
Your children will always remember and thank you, if both
parents can sit down and tell them they love them and it’s not their fault that
daddy and mommy are getting a divorce. Do
what is best for the children always place their welfare ahead of 2 angry
adults that just can’t wait to gouge and punish each other with spiteful accusations.
Parents so often get wrapped up in their selfish little
worlds that they will do anything to prove a point or punish the other
person. The little ones are the ones who
suffer and pay the dues for a disastrous divorce.
It’s a good rule of thumb if contemplating divorce to keep your
divorce between the two parting ways.
Don’t share your dirty laundry with friends, family or neighbors because
one day it will come back to haunt you.In a moment of weakness you decide to hurt your soon to be
ex - spouse by posting a wild party on Facebook you just attended or an extended
vacation with boyfriend or girlfriend.
Run
from the social media during divorce proceedings - attorneys are pros at
tracking down your most recent new relationships or activities and it may affect
the family law judge’s decisions. After-all if you’re
out enjoying a so called single life before the divorce is over, are you really
a parent who should have custody of the children?
Here I go again, catch myself stating this one
more time – a family law judge’s priority is the children & he or she will
make decisions which are in the “best interest” of the children.
In closing, if you take off your rose colored glasses when
contemplating divorce and think about the children first, everything else seems
secondary.
Your decisions will amaze you
as the children are now your priority and paying back your soon to be ex isn’t
nearly as important as it was two weeks ago. You become centered on the kids their future, education, sharing custody if
possible etc...
As Always,
Little Tboca
As Always,
Little Tboca
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