Possibly the biggest mistake made by those contemplating
divorce is allowing their emotions to dictate their actions. Contested divorces
usually end up in a potentially dangerous roller coaster ride that can and
often ends up in a super crash, because one party didn’t have their seat belt
on…
It’s human nature to want to punish and pay back your
spouse, and that’s exactly the reason so many people settle for detours.
Getting a divorce isn’t easy by any stretch of the imagination and you owe it
to yourself to slow down and learn what is involved in the divorce process.
Detours like paying $149 bucks for divorce forms that often
aren’t approved by your state’s courts or falling for the false information that
is offered on going pro se (self representation.) Pro se divorce is a tough way to go if you and
your spouse can’t agree on child custody, alimony or division of marital
assets.
Anger, confusion and the intense desire to take control of
one’s life can lead to detours that actually derail your chance to control your
destiny. Before heading down the bumpy divorce road, find out what your options
are and develop a game plan.
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One of the safest ways to get the correct divorce forms is
from your state’s government website. Each state offers a roadmap explaining in
how to file for divorce. Go to your government website and search for divorce.
Before filing for divorce study your state family laws. Find out what your state’s Statute of
Limitations, learn how to legally serve papers on your spouse and verify what
family law court will handle your divorce case.
This is just preliminary information, but will prevent many mistakes as
you head into the divorce process.
Most of the state government sites give you step by step
instruction on filing your papers, answering interrogatories, temporary orders
etc. If children are involved, study the information at theses sites on child
custody, child support and parenting time. There’s a wealth of knowledge
available if you just take the time to study and read it.
Another excellent resource is http://family.findlaw.com/divorce/ this site offers in depth information on
family law, divorce, child custody, alimony, division of marital assets and
offers the government websites in each state where you can get your divorce
forms.
It’s your life, your future and it is possible to experience
a favorable decision from the family law judge. Control your emotions, develop
a good game plan and be diligent about finding answers to all of your
questions.
As Always,
Little Tboca
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