For those contemplating or going thru divorce, it’s a
misnomer that once divorced your life will turn into a bed of roses with a
beautiful fairly predictable future. Divorce is one event in life that is
unpredictable and can change your lifestyle overnight.
Divorce will terminate the marital relationship, although
not necessarily eliminate the need for a civil relationship thereafter. If children are involved issues such as child
custody, alimony, visitation rights have many variables that can change
dramatically depending on financial changes, illness, loss of jobs and a times
devastating addictions.
So in reality, divorce allows you to live separately not
under the same room with your ex. It does not mean that marital assets will be
divided equally, nor does it mean you’re relieved of financial liabilities that
you and your spouse accumulated over a period of time.
Divorce isn’t a cure all solution for one wanting their
freedom from marital responsibilities and emotional issues – there’s no
guarantee that you’ll be able to continue or maintain the standard of living
that was present during the marriage.
Here’s an interesting article on “ready for divorce.” It discusses the good, the bad and ugly of
divorce. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/13/divorce-questions-are-you_n_1341987.html
There are many reasons why divorce may be a better solution;
(1) Abuse in the family, (2) Extreme addictions and (3) Adulterous
relationships that have destroyed the family unit.
If none of those reasons exit, it might be a good thought to
revisit the real reasons you’re adamant about getting divorce. Just don’t assume that divorce is an answer
to all of your woes – take time to learn more about the intricate family laws
that will affect your life after divorce.
Possibly visiting legal counsel and getting a free ½ hour
consultation would be a good alternative before making a definite decision that
divorce is the best possible solution.
Divorce isn’t a predicable and as said earlier it is power
packed with variables, consequences and determinants that will impact your
future.
As Always,
Little Tboca
www.caseboss.com
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