Baby boomers are
becoming frequent flyers in divorce court – even divorce attorneys are
surprised and rather confused. One would think that during the recession a
couple would want to weather the storm until the economy turns around, but
that’s not the case.
The baby boomers appear to be reinventing divorce –
they’re hell bent on getting out of Dodge with an armload of retirement funds,
the house and all that the couple has accumulated over 25 to 30 years. Family law judges are all ready on overload
and many boomers are opting for do it yourself divorce which is stressing
family law courts.
Muslims are reverting
to divorce and hot on the boomer’s trail which only makes divorce a much more
complex issue. What are the hot buttons
causing the discontent? What is going on
in our USA
that is triggering the boomers and Muslims to opt for divorce?
Muslims and boomers
are strange bed fellows and no one has a definitive explanation about this divorce
phenomena – Muslims and boomers certainly are marching to someone else’s drum
as they dash to the family law courts.
The boomers are
suffering from their decision to get a divorce; many are dipping into their
retirement funds to pay daily expenses. Assets are divided leaving each party
with some money, but they would have more to share as a couple. When they were married, one spouse usually stayed
at home to raise the children (meaning he or she may not have worked outside
the home,) so spousal support may be in order.
For the Muslims
marriage was Allah’s gift to mankind – the family supposedly should be
resilient and thrive on the union of man and women. But, Allah being a wise God
knew that not every relationship between man and women would work, so divorce
is an option if there’s a valid reason.
Allah frowns on divorce when the married couple doesn’t have a valid
reason for parting ways.
Christian for years
didn’t approve or support divorce but the norm has changed for them too –
although most Christians have a difficult time accepting divorce they are much
more tolerant than they were 10 or 15 years ago.
Is it something in
the air, the water or does the grass appear greener now to those wanting to
dissolve their relationships. Could it be boredom from our high tech society –
maybe we’ve become gadget and service poor.
Or could the state of
the nation be the culprit causing the discontentment due to a recession,
morality dysfunction, corrupt Government and constant turmoil within our
Country? Maybe people are just on
overload with too much to carry on their plates or maybe they’ve lost site of
the things that once made our Nation resilient, strong and a safe haven for
all.
As Always,
Little Tboca
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